sopan santun and why people lack it

Dah lama tak kena cuti panjang,felt really good and felt bersemangat after the long hiatus.

Anyway spent the last 3 days with the family,i can say it was a productive 3 days.

Saturday was spent mostly in the office,had to clear up a few things dont want to be caught up with anything during those 3 days.Rakan sekerja ada sekali so tak lah boring. Reached home at 5pm, took a short nap then took my other half to the clinic cause dia complain tak dgr.Nasib baik only 1 ear, kalau dedua tak dgr then problem gak.Settle that off we went to Alamanda,bawak sekali a good friend of mine.Since it was the AIM nite,we all planned just to have dinner and then head straight home.Tapi biasa ler plan same like promises are meant to be broken.

Had dinner at this nyonya restaurant,its just next to the coast which is near to starbucks.Biasanya i'll eat at the coast cause thats the best next thing to Chilli's, Hard Rock Cafe or even Planet Hollywood. Since takde tempat makan camtu, the coast pun boleh lah.Buy the way their mushroom burger memang lazat.Reason we at at the nyonya restaurant was because my friend tak dapat sentuh nasik for 1 whole week,he works as a pramugara and spent the whole week in Rome. The food was okay,but portion sikit so i tau after midnite sure lapar balik.Whenever i go to eat i make a point to mingle around with the staff,its easier when you get to know them.I dont like to create that barrier,between customer and waiter.During my student days,i worked in such establishments and if the customer doesnt treat or respect the waiter god knows what their gonna do with your meal.Even at work,I dont treat the subordinates any differently.We are all here to earn an honest living,to put food on the table,clothes on our family.Sometimes i tak paham why this mentality that "i am the boss you have to listen to me".Dont these people get it,the reason your on top is because your subordinates put you there.

Thank goodness for me i have never encountered that problem,my door is always open.Even after leaving the company,my subordiates always keep in touch and i' thankful for that.

Sunday was spent at KLCC.Needed to find new shoes and pants.Seperti biasa kalau dah cuti memang jam packed lah KLCC.Bila dah ramai org lifts will be full, escalators tak jalan/rosak.Memandangkan kitaorg bawak Yasmin added accesorie would be the stroller. So kalau nak pi from 1 floor to the other kena ler naik lift.Citer pasal lift ni biasa ler bila nak tunggu masuk lift there would be some people also nak masuk. Being who i am, i like to give that friendly smile bukanya senyum org giler ke apa.just a hello smile.Yang really piss me off is when they dont smile back and tarik muka masam. what the fuck man,mahal sangat ke kau punya senyum?As a human being salah ke balas senyum?The same thing bila kita bawak kereta, time jam we give way to someone yang nak mencelah,susah sangat ke nak angkat tangan?Some people anggap menda ni trivial but for me my parents have taught me to be civilised and respectful to others.I betul-betul tak paham?

Susah ke nak senyum?